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The word <\/span>personality<\/span><\/i> has become a very common currency in our day to day life and in the current social discourse. It is that tangible-yet-somewhat-unfathomable feature the employers look for among job aspirants and something that people look for in prospective partners. But the billion dollar question is: what is personality, after all, and can we set its boundaries clearly by defining it?<\/span><\/p>\n

Before we begin talking about personality, let\u2019s try to get it: Personality is not about being a well-dressed, smart-looking person, though it can help. Rather, it is the typical ways in which you perceive the world, think about it and act \u2013 all these things make you a unique personality.<\/span><\/p>\n

Personality goes much beyond superficialities. When we label someone a good personality, we are, in effect, saying that they are interesting and pleasant people to be with. We all would love to look attractive and pleasing and to this end, having a good personality is vitally important: in fact, much more than having just good looks. Of course, we need to work on figuring it out and developing it further.<\/span><\/p>\n

Since personality is the sum total of your qualities, quirks, characteristics, beliefs, attitudes and psychological traits, personality development<\/a><\/strong> would involve an enhancement in all areas of your life. A clutch of factors pertaining to heredity, environment, family and societal conditions play an important role in influencing and shaping personality. Therefore, one would need to work in all these areas to bring about a well-rounded development.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mercifully, there is ample research to suggest that we can certainly change our personality traits provided we want to do so. You can become the best version of yourself. – confident, enthusiastic and serene, if you really want to. A personality that makes you stand out and help you get what you want from life.<\/span><\/p>\n

The process may take considerable effort, but you can start with these easy and effective techniques and see a perceptible transformation in your whole personality. For those serious about bringing a positive holistic change in their life, personality development may become the most rewarding enterprise one could have ever undertaken.<\/span><\/p>\n

Based on my experiences as a life coach, here is my To-Do List for having a great personality:<\/b><\/p>\n

Personality Development Counselling<\/b><\/h2>\n
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    Be kind (towards yourself!)<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    A feeling of self-compassion brings optimism, extroversion, wisdom, happiness, positivity and resilience. Self-compassion involves three steps:<\/span><\/p>\n

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    1. Recognizing that you deserve care and concern and for that to happen, you must be kind and understanding towards yourself.<\/span><\/li>\n
    2. Accepting that making mistakes and facing failures are part and parcel of life. So, do not be hard on yourself when you commit a mistake or face a failure and try to avoid self-criticism.<\/span><\/li>\n
    3. Trying to become self-aware in terms of your emotions and feelings. Of course, self-compassion does not mean imply lack of accountability and recklessness. Rather, it means taking corrective action without getting too self-critical.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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        Celebrate your uniqueness<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        As a life coach<\/a><\/strong>, if I have discovered the biggest myth people have about themselves, it is this: they mostly wish they were someone else. <\/span>Feel confident in your own skin by not comparing yourself with others as the constant comparisons blocks our own strengths from our views. The other person tends to assume more strength in our mind. But the truth is: you\u2019re unique and incomparable and this uniqueness must be celebrated.<\/span><\/p>\n

        There was a time when you were required on this planet and that\u2019s why you were sent here. In the history of the universe, there has been nobody like you and for an infinite time to come, there won\u2019t be anyone else like you. Existence loved you so much that it broke the mould after making you, so none of your kind will never get born again. That way, you are original, rare, a wonder and a masterpiece. Celebrate your uniqueness.<\/span><\/p>\n

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          Perfectly imperfect<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Some of us are very tall, others quite puny, some obese, others lanky. If we compare ourselves with the currently popular media standards of physical appeal, our imperfections often agitate and trouble us. So much so that getting agitated becomes a habit and our grumpiness becomes a personality trait with age. But remember, people who are relaxed or chilled out, live happier and healthier and can charm people with their relaxed vibes. To feel cooler, give room to imperfections as those around you, the situations and your own personality don\u2019t always have to be the way you want them.<\/span><\/p>\n

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            Be a good listener<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n