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Each one of us is unique in their own ways. We all have varied thoughts, feelings, and behaviours that make us who we are- our personality. And it is our personality that shapes our unique strengths, weaknesses, and preferences and our interactions with others. Therefore, our personality determines to a great extent what life brings to us \u2013 success, joy, fulfillment, stress, sorrow, disappointment.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, there are some well-identified personality traits which often result in a better life. It has been observed that people having these qualities leave a positive, lasting impression on most people and are said to have strong personalities. Just think of Steve Jobs, Elon Musk, Barack Obama, Abraham Lincoln, Nelson Mandela, Mahatma Gandhi \u2013 the list goes on. And, everyone would like to be part of the list.<\/span><\/p>\n

Before we talk about the traits of a strong personality and personality development tips<\/a><\/strong>, let\u2019s first see if it is possible to develop one\u2019s personality. Earlier, psychologists were of the opinion that people were born with some characteristics, which tend to remain consistent throughout life. But recent research indicates that our personality isn\u2019t set in stone. It is very much possible to change our personality. But, it takes time and effort! All that you need is a willingness to change yourself and a bit of direction.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s try to find out what having a strong personality means and how you can develop one.<\/span><\/p>\n

Components of a Strong Personality<\/b><\/h2>\n
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  1. Happily embracing your own uniqueness<\/span><\/li>\n
  2. Understanding yourself<\/span><\/li>\n
  3. Finding the direction of your personality development<\/span><\/li>\n
  4. Capitalizing on your strengths, working on weaknesses<\/span><\/li>\n
  5. Empowering your communication<\/span><\/li>\n
  6. Making knowledge your real power<\/span><\/li>\n
  7. Pushing your limits to come out of your comfort zone<\/span><\/li>\n
  8. Developing good work ethics<\/span><\/li>\n
  9. Improving personal well-being<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    \u00a0<\/span>What Does A Strong Personality Look Like?<\/b><\/h3>\n

    Most personality development coaches agree on the point that one\u2019s genes, upbringing, experiences, and their environment play a crucial role shaping their unique persona. A strong personality has a lot to do with how others perceive your actions and behaviour positively. While you think of a strong personality, who comes to mind? Most likely- a likeable, accomplished, skilled, confident, and inspiring person.<\/span><\/p>\n

    A strong personality is marked by<\/span><\/p>\n

    Self-Confidence\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/b> Optimism\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/b> Integrity\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/b><\/p>\n

    Discipline\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/b> Humility\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/b> Empathy<\/b><\/p>\n

    Positivity \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/b> Persistence \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/b> Responsibility<\/b><\/p>\n

    Trustworthiness\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/b> Good communication \u00a0 Emotional stability<\/b><\/p>\n

    Resilience\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/b> Good self-esteem \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/b> Growth-oriented mindset<\/b><\/p>\n

    Here\u2019s on to how you can develop a strong personality using these personality development tips:<\/span><\/p>\n

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    1. \n

      Understand Who You Are<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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      Remember Aristotle, who often used to say \u201cKnowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.\u201d Well, that one is really the first baby step to developing a strong personality. Unless you understand your personality, you won\u2019t be able to move forward in the right direction.<\/span><\/p>\n

      It means identifying your natural characteristics and finding out your personal strengths and weaknesses.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Since we all have cognitive biases, understanding ourselves can be a complex process. Moreover, it is important to remember that a certain set of characteristics isn\u2019t going to determine a good, bad, strong, or weak personality. Rather, what matters is how these traits govern your actions and behavior towards yourself and others.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Practical ways to self-discovery<\/b><\/h3>\n
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      1. Introspection<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Good personality development coaches<\/a><\/strong> would always ask you to take the first important step of self-discovery by introspection.\u00a0 Introspection is observing your thoughts, feelings, and actions. We read books to gain knowledge of various subjects. Likewise, introspection helps us learn more about ourselves. Since our mental biases come in the way of truly recognizing our patterns,\u00a0 it takes great honesty to evaluate ourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n

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        1. Others\u2019 Feedback<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          We are often much better at judging others\u2019 personality. So, getting others\u2019 feedback is a good way to know about our own personality. Your dear ones and the people you interact with can give useful insights into how they interpret you. Of course, you need to seek feedback from people who have your welfare in their hearts. And once you get it, be sincere and objective in analyzing and working on it.<\/span><\/p>\n

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          1. Personality Tests<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            Quite a scientific, proven way to discover your personality. Some popular and scientifically valid ones are PF 16, The Big Five Personality, MBTI, and DISC Profile. They may not be perfect assessments but they can help you know a lot about your prominent traits, abilities, strengths, and weaknesses since they are based on wide spared testing and scientific validation of their results. Of course, the results\u00a0 depend on the answers you give; so, you\u2019ll need to answer honestly to get valid results.<\/span><\/p>\n

            A word of caution: Personality is too complex to measure or put into pigeon holes through tests. Remember not to see the results of these tests as the ultimate truth and to identify with it obsessively. It\u2019s best to use them as important indicators to learn more about yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

            Using all the three techniques, you can identify certain common themes to reach a solid conclusion.<\/span><\/p>\n

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              Embrace Your Uniqueness<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              As a life coach, if I have discovered the biggest myth people have about themselves, it is this: they mostly wish they were someone else. Feel confident in your own skin by not comparing yourself with others as the constant comparisons blocks our own strengths from our views. The other person tends to assume more strength in our mind. But the truth is: you\u2019re unique and incomparable and this uniqueness must be celebrated.<\/span><\/p>\n

              There was a time when you were required on this planet and that\u2019s why you were sent here. In the history of the universe, there has been nobody like you and for an infinite time to come, there won\u2019t be anyone else like you. Existence loved you so much that it broke the mould after making you, so none of your kind will never get born again. That way, you are original, rare, a wonder and a masterpiece. Celebrate your uniqueness.<\/span><\/p>\n

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                Perfectly imperfect<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                Some of us are very tall, others quite puny, some obese, others lanky. If we compare ourselves with the currently popular media standards of physical appeal, our imperfections often agitate and trouble us. So much so that getting agitated becomes a habit and our grumpiness becomes a personality trait with age. But remember, people who are relaxed or chilled out, live happier and healthier and can charm people with their relaxed vibes. To feel cooler, give room to imperfections as those around you, the situations and your own personality don\u2019t always have to be the way you want them.<\/span><\/p>\n

                Developing a strong personality is not a one-time task. It is a continuous process \u200cthat permeates everything you do, in every walk of \u200clife.<\/span><\/p>\n

                There are many strong personalities you can take inspiration from. Far more techniques that can help you improve your skills, conquer your fears, defy odds, and set you up for success.<\/span><\/p>\n

                However, the bottom line of everything is to embrace your uniqueness. All your strengths, weaknesses, thoughts, and feelings shape a unique human being like no other.<\/span><\/p>\n

                Hence, your road to personality development will be unlike anyone else\u2019s.<\/span><\/p>\n

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                1. Spend time understanding yourself better.<\/span><\/li>\n
                2. Keep exploring new things to expand your potential.<\/span><\/li>\n
                3. Keep pushing yourself out of your comfort zone.<\/span><\/li>\n
                4. Take care of your mind, body, and spirit; and you shall be invincible!<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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                    Direction of Personality Development<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                    The consonance between your current personality and what you want to become are two critical factors in deterring the direction of your personality development. Besides understanding your personality, you also need to know which parts of your personality are in sync with your aspired self and where you need to make improvements.<\/span><\/p>\n

                    For instance, if you aspire to become a good politician, you must have leadership qualities, public speaking skills, confidence, and an ability to handle criticism. Likewise, if your dream is to become a good psychologist, you need to be empathetic, trustworthy, observant, active listener, non \u2013judgmental and detached.<\/span><\/p>\n

                    Your own goals will determine where you need to focus more – which traits to develop self-confidence or empathy or which ones to shed \u2013 diffidence or introversion.<\/span><\/p>\n

                    How?<\/b><\/p>\n

                    As you understand yourself and your goals, list down your strengths and weaknesses -What are your biggest strengths? Biggest weaknesses? Which traits bring you the most opportunities? Which traits are a threat?<\/span><\/p>\n

                    In fact, you may do a SWOT analysis for each area \u2013 career, finance, personal relationships, health, etc..<\/span><\/p>\n

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                      Capitalize on Your Strengths, Work on Weaknesses<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                      Once you have got a clear picture of yourself- strengths and weaknesses \u2013 you can get into the action mode. Developing a strong personality is not just about working on weak spots, but is about making the most of your strengths – leveraging your natural skills and characteristics.<\/span><\/p>\n

                      For instance, you may be an introvert, who doesn\u2019t relish public speaking but is good at writing. If this be the case, you may excel at something like content writing or journalism or mass communication. Similarly, if you\u2019re stuck in a job like customer service, you may handle the live chat and use your writing skills to solve customer problems, instead of exhausting yourself with phone conversations. Of course, it doesn\u2019t mean that you needn\u2019t try to get better at speaking.<\/span><\/p>\n

                      The idea is-\u00a0 you can improve steadily without overwhelming yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

                      A word of caution here. Our strengths are our biggest assets but overusing them may make them a weakness. You may be\u00a0 endowed with good persuasion skills but obsessive persuasion may reach even a point of manipulation. So, if you don\u2019t keep a close watch, it can do more harm than good.<\/span><\/p>\n

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                        Good Communication<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                        Strong personalities have outstanding communication skills, enabling them to convey their thoughts, ideas, and information clearly with conviction. So much so that others not only resonate with them, but often get moved by it.<\/span><\/p>\n

                        Having strong communication skills doesn\u2019t mean you have to become an orator or a prolific writer. Effective communication means just expressing yourself clearly. Simultaneously, the audience is equally important as they need to understand it clearly. Good speaking skills<\/a><\/strong> are helpful not online professional life but also in personal life situations.<\/span><\/p>\n

                        Effective communication builds trust, resolves conflicts, solves problems, increases productivity, gives clarity and direction. Communication, whether it is verbal or written, is a complex process involving multiple factors at play – verbal cues, nonverbal cues, and listening. The verbal cues refer to the words you speak while nonverbal cues involve your body language, facial expressions, posture, and gestures.<\/span><\/p>\n

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                        Besides the verbal and nonverbal components, listening is very important in successful communication. Likewise, your language, tone, clarity, and completeness of information affect the effectiveness of your communication.<\/span>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

                        Tips to Develop Good Speaking skills and Good Listening Skills<\/b><\/h3>\n
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                        1. Pay attention to the speaker<\/span><\/li>\n
                        2. Keep a watch on nonverbal cues<\/span><\/li>\n
                        3. Show that you\u2019re listening by nodding or saying Hmm occasionally<\/span><\/li>\n
                        4. Ask questions\/ clarify<\/span><\/li>\n
                        5. Respond appropriately and respectfully<\/span><\/li>\n
                        6. Summarize what the speaker says to ensure you have understood them correctly<\/span><\/li>\n
                        7. Stay away from giving unsolicited advice<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                          Consider these points while speaking:<\/b><\/h3>\n
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                          1. Make mental notes before speaking<\/span><\/li>\n
                          2. Take your time to respond<\/span><\/li>\n
                          3. Be brief and clear<\/span><\/li>\n
                          4. Respectful language evokes regard<\/span><\/li>\n
                          5. Tell a story to engage<\/span><\/li>\n
                          6. Avoid fillers like \u201clike\u201d, \u201cum\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n
                          7. Avoid speaking too fast<\/span><\/li>\n
                          8. Do not get emotional<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                            Body Language<\/b><\/h3>\n

                            Sit or stand upright<\/span><\/p>\n

                            Relax your body<\/span><\/p>\n

                            Use open hand gestures (but avoid overusing them)<\/span><\/p>\n

                            Keep eye contact<\/span><\/p>\n

                            Exercises for better communication<\/b><\/h3>\n

                            Practice speaking before a mirror<\/span><\/p>\n

                            Record yourself to assess your voice and tone<\/span><\/p>\n

                            Begin by speaking in low-risk situations (friends and family)<\/span><\/p>\n

                            Practice voice modulation<\/span><\/p>\n

                            Get feedback<\/span><\/p>\n

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                              Make Knowledge Your Power<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                              Knowledge is among the greatest treasures of a strong personality. Regardless of their domain, such people have in-depth knowledge about their work, themselves, and people in general. The impact they make on others comes from their solid knowledge. Further, for them , learning is a lifelong process for them. That\u2019s why people always listen to them and give weight to what they say.<\/span><\/p>\n

                              Knowledge can broaden your horizons and infuse your mind with new ideas. Gaining more and more knowledge is the royal road to strengthen your personality. And in a globalized, digitalized world, knowledge can be acquired from endless sources – books, audio books, podcasts, videos, newsletters, training, courses and others\u2019 experiences.<\/span><\/p>\n

                              With so much to learn about in a limited time, you may wonder how you will manage it. But if you have the will, there\u2019s certainly a way out. Many productivity techniques \u200ccan help you maximize your learning in a limited time<\/strong>. Several platforms offer bite-sized information for busy people. Similarly, Udemy and Coursera have a plethora of courses you can attend to upskill and reskill yourself at your own pace. If you wish to learn from what strong personalities do, go to platforms like Mindvalley and Masterclass.<\/span><\/p>\n

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