{"id":8914,"date":"2025-06-02T07:14:08","date_gmt":"2025-06-02T07:14:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ritusingal.com\/?p=8914"},"modified":"2026-02-17T05:35:08","modified_gmt":"2026-02-17T05:35:08","slug":"premarital-counselling-infidelity-and-fear-of-marriage-is-getting-real-for-gen-z","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/webdevelopmentpro.online\/ritusingal\/blog\/premarital-counselling-infidelity-and-fear-of-marriage-is-getting-real-for-gen-z\/","title":{"rendered":"Premarital Counselling, Infidelity, and Fear of Marriage Is Getting Real for Gen Z"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I, Ritu Singal, a life coach, am not here to just promote relationship counselling services.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> I\u2019m here to tell you the truth. Raw. Brutal. And honest.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, let\u2019s talk beyond the fluff of <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/webdevelopmentpro.online\/ritusingal\/blog\/embrace-a-strong-start-the-importance-of-premarital-counseling\/\">premarital counselling<\/a><\/strong> and face what Gen Z is truly going through.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When the Dating Coach Gets Cheated On<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember Wizard Liz? <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A popular dating coach who preached self-love, boundaries, and avoiding toxic men?<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She recently revealed she was four months pregnant when her boyfriend cheated on her.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> The internet went wild. And rightfully so.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She was the poster girl for getting your love life right.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 yet her world seemed to collapse. Yes, she ended things quickly. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But her story opened a wound for many Gen Z readers: _&#8221;If someone like her can get cheated on, what chance do I have?<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>MUST WATCH<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><center><iframe title=\"Tips for happy married life by marriage counselor- Life Coach Ritu Singal\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/pOB0GHzj3xg\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><\/iframe><\/center><center><\/center><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cheating: Then vs. Now<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0Cheating isn\u2019t new , Gen Zs should know that\u00a0 It existed in previous generations too. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Husbands working late, wives out more than usual\u2014there were signs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What&#8217;s the difference then? The difference there is that now cheating has become 10 times easier.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re just a swipe or a DM away from crossing a line.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reconnecting with an ex is one Ola or Uber ride away.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Temptation is one insta dm or a video chat away.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So yes, Gen Z&#8217;s fear of marriage? Totally valid.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Checkout:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/webdevelopmentpro.online\/ritusingal\/blog\/the-power-of-pre-marriage-counseling-a-guide-to-a-strong-and-healthy-relationship\/\">The Power of Pre-Marriage Counseling: A Guide to a Strong and Healthy Relationship<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><strong>Unhappy but Together: The Reality of Past Marriages<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Were Earlier Marriages Really Happier?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So yes fear of marriage of marriage in completely valid. Given the dating scenarios, the number of divorcees and more. But do you think people didn&#8217;t want to divorce when they were married earlier? Do you really think those couples who stayed together for long time were happy together?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes they were ..on paper with no divorce. And today some divorce couples are happier but not on paper in real.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Earlier, divorce was shameful, people didn&#8217;t know what they needed. People just stayed married to look good in front of society, but their kids faced the brunt of <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/webdevelopmentpro.online\/ritusingal\/services\/family-counselling\/abusive-marriage\/\">abusive marriages<\/a><\/strong>. Separation is better in such cases.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The fact that now people can end such relationships is progress not problematic.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Fairytales vs. Reality<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I know many of you still dream of that perfect, fairytale marriage.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> But let\u2019s get one thing straight:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fairytales are for bedtime stories. Marriage is a full-time, evolving process.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And I\u2019m not here to promise that you won\u2019t meet cheaters or toxic partners.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019m here to show you how to avoid red flags before its too late\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might think you already know. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But recognizing danger and reacting to it are two different things.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> That\u2019s where counselling can help.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Why Marriage Counselling Matters Today<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-18907 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/webdevelopmentpro.online\/ritusingal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Blue-Minimalist-Romantic-Couple-Instagram-Post-1024x1024-1.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/webdevelopmentpro.online\/ritusingal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Blue-Minimalist-Romantic-Couple-Instagram-Post-1024x1024-1.webp 1024w, https:\/\/webdevelopmentpro.online\/ritusingal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Blue-Minimalist-Romantic-Couple-Instagram-Post-1024x1024-1-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/webdevelopmentpro.online\/ritusingal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Blue-Minimalist-Romantic-Couple-Instagram-Post-1024x1024-1-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/webdevelopmentpro.online\/ritusingal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Blue-Minimalist-Romantic-Couple-Instagram-Post-1024x1024-1-768x768.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And no I(Ritu Singal) am not going to tell you that there will be no cheaters ,there wont be abusive partners .I am telling you I will help you how to identify the redflags in partners before hand.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And yes, you may already know that . But what you may not know is how to handle such situations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If today there are more divorces, there is <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/webdevelopmentpro.online\/ritusingal\/blog\/how-to-break-the-fear-of-marriage\/\">more marriage counselling<\/a><\/strong> too, and people who truly want to save their marriage are doing the work with their partners. Which type do you want to identify as? It&#8217;s your choice<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Final Words of Hope<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are the generation that believes in therapy, emotional intelligence, and breaking generational trauma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So don\u2019t give up on love just because the world looks messy.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Don\u2019t fear marriage. Prepare for it. Work on yourself. Choose wisely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if you need help, I\u2019m here. Visit my website to begin your journey.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I, Ritu Singal, a life coach, am not here to just promote relationship counselling services. 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