{"id":9229,"date":"2025-07-07T07:24:26","date_gmt":"2025-07-07T07:24:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ritusingal.com\/?p=9229"},"modified":"2026-02-17T05:29:29","modified_gmt":"2026-02-17T05:29:29","slug":"breaking-the-quiet-taboo-of-marriage-and-family-counselling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/webdevelopmentpro.online\/ritusingal\/blog\/breaking-the-quiet-taboo-of-marriage-and-family-counselling\/","title":{"rendered":"Breaking the Quiet Taboo of Marriage and Family Counselling"},"content":{"rendered":"

Do you have a fear of the phrase “family and marriage counselling”?<\/span> You may wonder, “Why is it necessary? <\/span>Do you picture a group of family members fighting in front of a therapist?<\/span> Do you feel the goosebumps of it? <\/span>I, Ritu Singal, am here to help you break free of your patterns.<\/span><\/p>\n

No, marriage counselling is not what you imagine it to be.<\/span> Marriage and family counselling<\/a><\/strong> is about addressing family problems directly.<\/span> It is about finding solutions that tie the family together.<\/span>\u00a0 You may wonder, “Why is it necessary? How will it benefit us?<\/span>” Let me, Ritu Singal, show you why and dive deeper into it.<\/span><\/p>\n

You visit the doctor when you are sick.<\/span> You go to the gym to build up the mental muscle of your body.<\/span> You eat right and healthy to keep your body clean.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yet you feel ashamed when you have to go and heal your mind with a therapist.<\/span> Yet you don’t challenge the negative aspects and thoughts in your relationships and build a muscle of resilience.<\/span> Yet you don’t practice and engage in the art of healthy relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n

Family Counselling: Not Just for Broken Families<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Healthy relationships is what keeps families together. <\/strong>But what happens when there are cracks in this relationship?<\/span> Who saves whom?<\/span><\/p>\n

In an office context, the HR or sometimes the manager handles the issue.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Who handles it in your case? Is the HR in your family biased?<\/span><\/p>\n

Every family faces challenges, but not all families have the answers<\/span>.<\/span> Are you still a “what will people say person\u2019\u2019?<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you ever think to go and find solutions for your family<\/a><\/strong>?<\/span> What blinds you from actually taking decisions in your family?<\/span><\/p>\n

People usually have this misconception that family counselling is for broken families.In actuality, however, family counselling is for actual families. Real families have disputes, occasional rifts, different stressors from different members, and of course, the occasional awkward talk.<\/span><\/p>\n

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However, dysfunctional patterns are on a scale of 1 to 10.<\/span> In some families, there are more dysfunctional patterns, and others less.<\/span><\/p>\n

What does dysfunction consist of?
\nPhysical abuse
\nVerbal abuse
\nSexual abuse
\nDrug problems
\nAlcohol or any sort of addiction problem<\/p>\n

So what is family counselling? <\/span>Is it here to prove who is right and who is wrong? <\/span>We are here to get into the root of your problems <\/span>Dysfunctional family patterns have several different types of people:<\/span><\/p>\n

Perpetrator \u2013 The one who creates the chaos<\/span><\/p>\n

Enabler \u2013 The one who enables the chaos<\/span><\/p>\n

Peacemaker \u2013 The one who ensures peace in the family<\/span><\/p>\n

Scapegoat \u2013 The child blamed for all of the dysfunction<\/span><\/p>\n

Lost child \u2013 The child who is the most unseen in the family<\/span><\/p>\n

Golden child \u2013 The overly pampered child<\/span><\/p>\n

When one understands these patterns, one can figure out a way to break free from them.<\/span> But it isn’t easy, as everybody wants to play a role in blaming others.<\/span> That’s when it gets confusing and harsher towards each other.<\/span><\/p>\n

The goal of family counselling is not to tell who is at fault but rather how to nip the evil in the bud.<\/span><\/p>\n

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